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Dear
Friend,
Hi There!
Welcome
to a little help for planning your trip to India and to Vijayawada City, the
home of SKCV. First of all there are a myriad myths regarding the filth,
poverty, water and horrible diseases from which you will die in India.
Please do not be bewildered by these. They are all mostly rubbish. India IS,
however, a very different place with different food, water, weather and
customs…. but then, so is Spain .... !
If you
are sensible you will not regret coming to India, we promise!
Volunteer
Work There are two options for volunteer work:
The first one is to be
placed in
the Non-Formal School (The Vidya Vihar - or Home of Love) of the children's
village at Bhavanipuram, the edge of Vijayawada. The setting is beautiful
with palm trees and green fields on the bank of the mighty River Krishna.
The Village has a 35-cow dairy farm and most of the vegetables are grown
by the boys. A Management Committee made up of older students manages the
entire school. The teaching staff is warm and loving. The main medium of
instruction is Bi-lingual, English and local language, Telugu. Volunteers
usually feel happier working in the school because other projects are
mostly Telugu speaking. In the school most of the kids and staff speak
English. Volunteers are encouraged to work on a curriculum topic or
booklet during their stay so that they leave behind something meaningful
when they return home.
The second option is to work at the girls
centre, which is in Vijayawada. It is the only residential care centre for
girls in the whole of Andhra Pradesh. Recently the girls moved to a new
building, where 60 girls found shelter, education and care. There is a
non-formal school at the girls centre where they teach subjects including
Telugu, English, math, arts, crafts, storytelling and tailoring. You can
assist in the lessons and help with the daily care of the girls. Receiving
love and affection means a lot to them!
Climate
Between
October and February is an ideal time to come to India. It is warm, but not
oppressive. March and April heat up and May, June and July are scorching (up
to 49C) then the monsoon comes and lasts to October. It will still be very
humid during this time but the temperature drops.
Please
note that we cannot accept volunteers during the April to October months.
Time
difference
4 ½ hours
ahead GMT, 5 ½ hours ahead BST.
Vijayawada City
Vijayawada is a big, busy, industrial city known as the gateway between
North and South India. The town is known as a temple city meaning it iwas
originally built around the major SRI KANAKA DURGA temple that is a must
see. It is home to almost a million people. Not many
Westerners get this far, so you will often be the centre of attention. Don't
worry, you will soon become a sister or brother to the people of Vijayawada
and they will help you in any way they can. People will stare, but usually
they are just curious and often simply want to know where you have come
from.
Visas
If you
wish to stay for a long or short period you must apply to your local Indian
High Commission (for the UK, Birmingham is best) who will issue an ENTRY
VISA (for more than six months) or TOURIST VISA. (London will not issue an ENTRY VISA easily)
Do
not say that you are going to do any kind of work while you are in
India, including working with children at SKCV. Your desire is only to
be visiting for a few days. You are just a tourist.
You cannot
extend any TOURIST VISA in India for any reason. You
have to go to your country of origin and re-apply (very expensive!) This
is a very strict rule. However, if you do not intend to extend your visit,
then just get a Tourist Visa.
If you
plan to spend many months in India then apply for an ENTRY VISA which will
need a letter from SKCV (India). In this case you SHOULD mention working
with the children.
Health
SKCV
certainly takes care of its volunteers and has its own small hospital.
Generally your health should not be a problem if you are careful. Bottled
water is a "must" until you are acclimatized. However, at SKCV centres there
is 100% electronically purified water available on tap. You must drink pints
of water! People debate over whether to take malaria tablets here due to
resistant strains of mosquitoes (the side effects are terrible .. worse than
malaria itself) however, follow your doctor’s advice. Bear in mind that
volunteers have come with suitcases full of remedies which, they found
unnecessary. Local doctors advise that the best thing to do is allow your
body to get used to what it needs to cope with this climate. Most
medicines are obtained here cheaply. There is a medical shop at the
volunteer flat gate.
Toiletries : soap, sanitary towels and other items are available from local
stores (name brands). Sterile syringe packs are sold here over the counter.
Western shampoos, soap, toothpaste, plasters and mosquito repellent etc. are
all available. However, you may wish to bring conditioner with you as it is
hard to find. India also has the highly respected Ayurvedic (natural
medicine) toiletries and medicines which, are well worth a try.
Stay and
Accommodation There are
hotels, (around 7 pounds a night) guest houses and lodgings, of all kinds to
suit your budget. Normally volunteers like to stay with SKCV Trustee and
former Mayor, Dr.Shankar and his wife. They have a nice flat where you can
cook for yourself or choose to eat out cheaply. The apartment is huge and
can hold up to six volunteers. It has three bedrooms, a lovely balcony where
you can sit under the mango tree, a large TV room and the maid will be there
to do your washing and cleaning for a very small amount of money. The
apartment is situated on a quiet street, the gate is always locked at night
and Rufus, the large dog, will protect you at any time! The cost is Rs.150 a
night.
Facilities
Email,
Fax and Internet are now available all over India. E-mail is also available
any time for volunteers at SKCV, but please offer to pay. Remember SKCV is a
charity. There are many internet and fax centres near the volunteer flat.
The cost is about Rs.10-30.
International faxes can also be sent from the SKCV office (around! £1.50 a
min). The line is dedicated to FAX at the office.
Banks
The Exchange rate fluctuates around £1=65r
(rupees). The Canara bank near SKCV Office, changes just about anything and
will even open an account for you to have money wired direct. VISA is the
most widely accepted card but there
are hundreds of "holes in the wall" now in the city centre that accept most
international cards.
Post
Office
Mastan,
receptionist and one of the future group members, will be happy to post your
letters. You can also give the SKCV Santosh Bhavan address to your friends
and family at home and he will be pleased to give any letter that arrives
for you!
SKCV Children's
Trust
A K Rao Santosh Bhavan
Opp. Press club, Gandhinagar
Vijayawada 520 003
Krishna District, AP, India
There is
post office near the SKCV office in town and one near the Krishna Residency
Hotel, Governorpet.
The post office has STD and FAX service. You can also have goods packed to
send home.
Public
phones can easily be identified by their mustard yellow facades. They boast
computerised billing, so you can watch the cost mount up, (Rs.60 for a min.
to UK). It is the same rate 24 hours a day for International calls. Some
periods are cheaper for National calls within India. Do not expect your
calls to be private. It seems to be a form of public entertainment for those
waiting to use the phone.
What to bring
Bring
very little. Clothes are washed in a jiffy (by someone else for a
ridiculously small fee) and you will regret the extra weight if you decide
to travel around. The SKCV tailoring workshop can run you up clothes quickly
with local materials. Anything you do bring should be loose and made of
cotton. A smartish outfit for semi-formal occasions would be useful but
could be purchased locally. A sunhat with a generous brim may be a good
idea.
Etiquette
– Women
India is
a magnificent melting pot of religion, culture and customs. You will really
enjoy the experience. However, bear in mind that this is a conservative
country and you will draw unwanted attention and offend or insult of you do
not follow the rules. ("When in Rome…")
Women are demure all over India and particularly in this area. They do not
wear shorts, short skirts, T-shirts or see-through material. They cover
their upper arms and do not even show ankles.
They also expect other women to do the same.
As you will be working alongside respected and respectable Indians at SKCV
and will also meet them in the community, it would be greatly respected if
you bear this fact in mind. Volunteer women have found Punjabi suits
comfortable and cool, (available very cheaply as soon as you arrive).
The staff, trustees and even the older children prefer the ladies wear
this type of dress.
Dressing simply in lightweight clothes that cover most of the body is the
order of the day. Long skirts are acceptable, cool and comfortable. Loose
thin trousers are also practical. Sandals are most comfortable and are
available everywhere cheaply and
proper undergarments are
a MUST
AT ALL TIMES. You will be encouraged by the children to
swim in the river at the village. Women usually bathe fully dressed and
cannot swim with the men or boys.
NOTE:
We have had some serious problems in the past with female and male
volunteers unwittingly under the impression that our SKCV older children are
the same as Western older children of the same age. This has led to severe
managerial problems, and even extreme embarrassment of both the involved
volunteers and boys and girls. India is VERY different and there is no
comparison between the relationships shared in the West, and anything in
India. Any intimate friendship or
sexual deviation or relationship on the part of an India boy or girl who is
not married is not condoned by Indian Society
and such occurrences will be dealt with by the boy or girl and/or volunteer
being asked to leave SKCV immediately.
As such, volunteers are held responsible for their actions and
any
volunteer
inviting or allowing boys or girls or young men or women into the volunteer
quarters at ANY
time (whether SKCV inmates or not) will be subject to immediate termination
of volunteer services. This is a strong statement, but as we are a public
charitable trust, we have
to conform to the rules and normal behavior of the country we live in. We
know you will understand.
Etiquette – Men
We are sorry but men have
no problems with how to dress, but the same type of cool, loose clothing is
strongly suggested. No need for boots, socks, jeans or anoraks in South
India. Be prepared to take off your shoes when you enter a house or temple.
Flip-flops are best and very cheap here. A firm handshake will gain
friendship. Diplomacy and listening to the other person always works
wonders. Much can be learned from elders in India.
Note:
The same rules as above
regarding relationships is equally applicable to our male volunteers.
Food
Note: SKCV in India is a totally vegetarian
organisation which promotes vegetarianism. Meat and fish are not part
of our diet.
As most
of the children are ‘veggies’ before they come to us we find it better for
their health to continue this. We also believe that one who eats meat loses
his/her sense of mercy and cannot work well with the children. Either way it
really is best to abandon meat while you are in India. Most disease comes
from eating contaminated meat. There is no such thing as a butcher’s shop
and the meat stall on the roadside will quickly confirm your resolution to
go ‘veggie’. Be prepared to eat with your your right hand!
Food
Shopping
‘Modern
Foods’ Supermarket and Nilgiris can provide you with a variety of goods,
bread, rice, pasta, tomato puree, custard, sweets, Cadbury’s Drinking
Chocolate (yep!), Kellogg's Cornflakes, butter, sweet corn, processed,
cheddar and mozzarella cheese, baked beans, biscuits, packet soups,
toiletries and washing powder…. You can often get bread, biscuits and butter
at a ‘Fancy Store’, stocking, it seems, whatever takes their fancy!
Fresh
milk is not bought at a supermarket but they have pasteurised packets. Fresh
milk from the roadside – blue and yellow crates (only at 5.00am). Ask for
dairy outlets as well. Milk is sold in 500ml packs for Rs.6-7. Normal milk
packet with blue writing, semi-skimmed with orange. Boil the milk even if it
says pasteurised.
You can
buy all kinds of vegetables and fruits at the market and street stalls.
Vegetables include potatoes, aubergines, onions, tomatoes, cucumbers,
carrots etc. Fruits include pineapple, mangoes, papaya, sweet grapefruit
(its juice makes a marvellous drink), bananas, grapes, pomegranates etc.
Be
prepared to barter. Ask someone you trust what you should pay, halve the
amount the vendor asks and with a smile, start with that. Walking away also
reduces a price fast.
Where to
eat out When at the children's village you can either eat
in the dining room with the boys, (which is the spicy option). Or try the
international cuisine in Manihara, his wife and their adopted son's house.
Orders can be taken for Mexican, Spanish, traditional Italian or any other
flavour. Previous volunteers serious suggest creamed potatoes.
There are
many good places to eat. Krishna Residency has a good restaurant and fast
food stall. The Hotel Illapuram (pronounced eyelapooram) has a vegetarian
restaurant that is recommended and not expensive. Hotel Quality Inn (DV
Manor) is a top hotel and it has all kind of food, but it is bit expensive.
Hotel Minerva has a great veggie restuarant.
Breakfast is
easily found outside the gates of the volunteer apartment. The stall will
provide fresh dosa, puri or idly. For
snacks there is a good fast food joint under the Alankar cinema in the city
centre and another, Anoos, near Dr.Shankar's. Modern Café and Lodgings on
Besant Road does nice masala dosa (savoury pancake), sweet lassi (yoghurt
drink) and is a perfect place for an
evening meal. Try Kulfi ice cream .. it’s made from buffalo milk and is an
acquired taste but we love them! There is another ice cream parlor on Bunder
Road worth a visit! At Adhikar Hotel there is a fast food joint and Hot
breads which is the BEST place in town. Vegetarian burgers, ice cream and
pizzas are sold at Baker’s Inn. Then there is always CRAZY RESTAURANT in
Gandhinagar.
Eating
habits in India is the custom to eat with the fingers by all. Wash your
hands before and after eating. The left hand is considered very dirty and is
never put near the mouth. Indians will, however, take pity on you and give
you a spoon, (sometimes).
Getting
around
You can travel by
taxi, bus, auto-rickshaw and cycle. To get to the centres you can get an
auto-rickshaw. Prices are Rs. 15 to go to the night shelter, but it's also a
comfortable walk, Rs.20 to the girls centre and Rs.30 to the children's
village. Every morning at 9:30 am you can catch the SKCV bus leaving the
night shelter for the village.
Getting
away
There is
a good bus service in Vijayawada although it may be crowded. Women sit at
the front, men at the rear. The conductor is the man struggling through the
crush screeching for your tickets. Many buses leave for all parts of India
daily and the service is efficient. They range from boneshakers to nice
semi-sleeper Air
Conditioned tourist buses. Prices are cheap and booking is computerised.
Vijayawada has the largest train station in
South India which is situated a short
distance from the night shelter. Trains leave daily for all major cities,
simply ask us to organise your ticket or there is an underground booking hall which is
computerised. From here you can book travel anywhere in the country and also
travel starting from other destinations.
There is
an information counter staffed by friendly staff opposite the entrance where
you can have queries answered and can obtain reservation slips you write on
it the details of the ticket you require and then queue at the relevant
counter. Women can queue jump; there’s a special window for them and freedom
fighters! You can only book tickets 30 days ahead. It’s well worth doing
this early – remember the train is the most popular form of travel for 9
million people here. Get your seat before they all do. Long distance hauls
(30 hrs or more) are best done in Air conditioned coaches.
The SKCV
staff and boys will gladly tell you what to see and where it is. Some of the
older boys make good guides.
Shopping!!!
The best place to shop is One Town, the oldest part of the city. A centre of
tiny streets crammed with rickshaw's, auto's, animals, children, beggars,
street sellers and dozens of shoppers next to small shops overflowing with
goods. It is possible to find anything ranging from spices, silver, ropes,
sari's, fruit, vegetables, games, paint and bangles. Be careful not to get
lost in the retail jungle! Bhakti {Founder} will be happy to take you out.
Things to see
Kanakadurga Temple can be seen on the hill, very old and beautiful, when
travelling to the village. Ignore pushy priests in the small temples who say
they want to bless you but really want you to bless them with your money.
Queen
Victoria Memorial Museum is on Bunder Road.
A
trip to an Indian cinema is a must, if only to observe the phenomenon as the film
draws to a close. Go to see a Hindi or Telugu movie- some of the boys or
girls will
translate for you. Two cinemas show up-to-date English films and tickets for
air-conditioned seats are around Rs.25.(believe it or not!)
Gandhi
Hill is in the middle of the city between 1 Town and 2 Town and offers a
museum and views for miles.
Rajiv
Gandhi Park is the main green area of the city. There is a water fountain
synchronized with modern music and a small zoo which is not well stocked but
the lizard in the end cage is a ‘must see’. Its ancestor would climb to the
top of a castle with a rope put around his neck to help invading men scale
the walls
There are other
parks including Ragaviah Park near Besant Road dotted along the canals.
The
children and your guide book will tell you all about places of interest.
Buy here
(almost everything)
If you
are staying a while a mosquito ‘zapper’ which you plug in to the electricity
supply will ensure a bite-free night. Nets prevent the air from the fan
reaching you.
Clothes,
both for your stay and for use at home. Anything can be tailored here. If
you have a picture of it they can make it! So make sure you have family
measurements before you leave home. The silks and cottons are lovely.
Indians do not buy off the rack. Everything is tailor made.
Bookshops
Ashok
Bookshop is quite a way out near Benz Circle but is well worth a visit if
you want a good book. If you haven’t read ‘Freedom at midnight’, written by
Dominique Lapierre and Larry Collins, make it the next you read.
Higginbottoms, the largest book chain in South India sells a wide range of
good books. Cassettes and CDs are half the price here than in the West.
Annoyances
The queue
does not exist in India and your frustrations will be ignored. Always be
polite and prepared to wait.
Driving in India is an art (of madness) much akin to the dodgem cars. The
bigger vehicle has right of way. Two or three policemen have to man traffic
lights because no one follows the lights or the that matter any semblance of
the Highway Code. But the SKCV founder and the boys drive all day without a
problem, its actually fun to drive in India once you know that the rule is
there are no rules.
Last
points:
Being
friendly and courteous moves mountains here. The Indians are very friendly,
kind people. SKCV will help all the way with anything you need to be done.
Just remember that India is VERY different from the West.
"When
in Rome ... Do as the Romans Do".
All in
all don’t worry about a thing. Visiting India is a great and rewarding
experience for every one. Visiting SKCV is even more so, life is very
different but highly interesting and amusing. Look for the man riding his
rickety bicycle on the bumpy roads .... with 50 trays of eggs towering above
the back rack!!!
WE AT SKCV ARE HERE TO HELP YOU EVERY INCH
OF THE WAY.